This entry is going to be hypocritical of me, cause I myself like to impose on others... but recently, a friend of mine asked me, why people like to impose their opinion onto others?
I say I don't know. Well, we further discussed and I found out, there is truly a difference between a comment and a critic. A comment is opposing someone's idea and looking only for the negative part of it. To criticize on the other other hand, is to point out the negative part while suggesting@imposing a different point of view as a solution.
My bad actually. There is also a difference between imposing and suggesting. Imposing, is to push your stand towards the other person until he or she surrenders. Suggesting, is to put that point of view out there and let them decide for themselves.
I guess, the only reason we love to impose onto others, is the fact of not being able to accept that we are wrong. Our stand is wrong. We hold credit to the fact that, if we are wrong, our whole life must've been wrong.
My dear friends, a reminder to myself and all of you, as a child and as we grow up, we learn from our mistakes and to know, if its a mistake that we've made, our first step is to admit that we are wrong. I'm just saying, we can continue to impose our ideas onto others or we could be more astute. Think about it.
Cheerios
Munawwir Khan Yusoff Khan
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