How is it so, when a man with good looks tease a girl, it's okay but when an ugly does, it's insulting? How is it so, when a gorgeous woman flirts its awesome but when a not so beautiful one does it, it's called gedik? When one takes the honest truth about life, we human are very, very shallow and not forgetting vain. Be it long, short, tall, thin or fat, we measure human physically and never the inner part.
In a book that I read, 'How to talk to anyone', it states that, first impression is of the most important aspect when you first meet someone. From this so called first impression, it portrays to the other person the whole you, which I find rather discouraging. Why so? Well for me, I don't really make a good first impression. A second or third maybe but the first? Hmmm. =P
Ask anyone who knows me for quite sometime, I'm pretty sure that you can never get the whole me from just a first glance. (Yeah yeah... Snicker for all I care. I know I'm quite huge. =P) Well, it might be that I rarely smile, and I can sometimes seem a little obnoxious, but the truth is, I'm really really an interesting guy... (for some that is... hehehe). Oh yeah, if you still don't get the point of this entry just yet, it's an entry where I angkat bakul sendiri. =P Why? Because I'm bored.... (enuff said.)
Oh yeah, talking bout being shallow, let us not forget about the vain part. I've seen celebrities on the idiot box claiming that, they don't really care what others say about them. Really? I believe the term goes like this, 'if I have a penny for every gossip...' Haha. There's this one show where they rate big built celebs, on their popularitya and success despite of their bodies which I find rather hypocritic and confusing. They state to the audience despite being large and unattractive physically, they are well recieved and well known for the same fact. Why in the world would one make such a programm on tv? If they are accepted for being fat, they don't really need to tell the whole world about it now do they? Simple fact being, they aren't really accepted as a whole and we humans still measure a person's honesty and sincerity from the cover. (if you are asking why I've been watching such shows... again I'm bored...)
Oh yes, talking about being shallow and vain, it's not just men but women too. (ARGHHH I see a few smirks and boo from the opposite sex) Tak percaya? Well, lately, when I go out for TT with a good friend Wadi, we've been mentioning a lot about rejection, break ups and depression. (FYI Wadi is one of my closest friend and like Apai says hetrosexually, he's HAWT =P) Haha. Gay Wadi gay. He and two other friends of mine says, breaking up is worst than rejection. All about getting over the girl is painful according to him, and he also says that if possible he'd rather loose his memory over the relationship than having it with him. And this is what I tell him...
Wadi, if you look at the possibilities, you're still young and there's a million girls out there who are willing to take their chances with you. Unlike myself on the other hand, like what my mom always says, kerja, kumpul duit and later the girls will come after you. Do you see the difference? He (who is actually already back on his feet with a new girl) can easily petik his jari and thousands will come. Why? Because he's got the looks. Even a good friend of mine, can't wait to introduce him to her single friends once she knows that Wadi is single. Myself? Well, kerja dulu, kumpul duit, beli rumah then the girls will come.... =P. (even by then, I can never be sure whether the woman would love me for me or love me for my money) =) Oh and for the saying love is blind... well not really. Colour blind perhaps. =P
Btw, this entry is not meant to hurt anyone's feeling, but rather just to portray another fact of life. To the women whom are hurt by my so called comments, I would like to say, this is not personal. I know there are people out there whom I haven't met, who are actually sincere and not shallow. *wink* And FYI, I'm also talking about myself when I say most people are shallow and vain. I do judge books by its cover but from time to time, I also take the time to read its content. =P Tapi macam orang tua-tua cakap, carilah biar sepadan kalau tak orang cakap pulak, hidung herot pipi tembam? hehehe. Just kidding....
Jangan ambil ke hati ye cause this is just some blabbering of a bored, half sane dude. And to all selamat berpuasa.... =P
Cheerios
Mooney
6 comments:
Well, I believe everyone pun pasang that perception.
Actually, not much different btw the 2 gender.
Senang je, boleh nampak. Guys rather talk to budak perempuan yang cantik/or somewhat decent tapi behavior like ummmmm dari seorang yang personality interesting tapi in the looks department ummmm.
I have friends like that, ones yang I rase sangat baik and precious tapi kurang bakat in the hawtness dept (bukan tak cantik, tak tahu mendandan je me think)
Walaupun berbunyi shallow, but at least for guys, when you have steady job and income, insyaAllah adalah yang datang.
But for girls, its more difficult. Kalau ada job and steady income belum tentu mendapat score anything with the guy. Terlebih berjaya tak boleh pulak, nanti melebihi lelaki pulak. Aih pulak dah. Kalau usia yang makin meningkat, mereka nak buat kawan pun org assume tgh desperate cari bf b4 the age of 30.
Real life story,
I have a kenalan (girl A), sangatlah alim, sopan, berpengetahuan tinggi, memang ustazah la, yang dalam diam ade hati at this guy (guy b). Guy B pun I would think I'd put him in category ustaz2 jugak la. Anyway, guy B tahu Girl A likes him but he's not interested. Girl A crushed gila gile but still menaruh harapan for guy B. Guy B is single and not ghey :)
But one day time tengah lepak reramai, ade one very cun melecun hawt lady lalu, all guys pandang and went all monkey-fied ogle at the girl. Guy B included mengusha the girl and komen yg why la he's still single. So when someone commented that
"Eee, ada orang baik nak kat you, you taknak. Nak yang cantik cantik tapi perangai questionable"
You know what he sed?
"Wanita baik memanglah ramai. Tapi kalau yang cantik cam model, masih boleh di didik lagi"
So meaning he'd rather score a beautiful ones on the outside (then ubah dia zzzz) rather than go to another yang dah mmg baik.
Haih, its a sad world we live in. We gotta change the way we look at people. As one of the female species, here's some insides. The ones that are plain looking USUALLY are the ones with the most awesome personality. Like seriously.
We need to change. Kita mampu mencubahnya hehe.
Hai Muni! Sory I spam ur comment box heheheh saje tinggal jejak, boo guess who?
hehe. thanks for the comment. i know who u r. haha. btw comel betul ye ur anak sedara. nak gigit sikit. hehe. yeah i guess what u say is also true. tapi kan, kerja dulu, kumpul duit, beli umah and kereta... hahaha
p.s. rajin ye kerja2 mentracing down ni. hahaha
such a slam entry yet so0oo true.. i do have a cousin who said "biar dia x bertudung janji lawa nanti bole suru dia pakai tudung, tp kalau rupa x lawa camne nak ubah?"
so, how u gonna come up with such situation..?
i'm a person with 'tudung', but not to say that "i x lawa" and yet i wont say that "i lawa" hmm hmm..
gay sial wadi.
hahaha camni a. asal aku kene. sabar ek musang
sabar ye kak ruwa.... bertudung tapi lawa dan claim tak lawa.... hurmmm i can only think of one person. rasanya macam right on the dot je tekaan. next time jgn anonymous ye. hehe
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